Love is Retarded
Dated: September 18, 2006
Warning: Tag-lish (huh?)
Someone told me a story the other day, about a boy-meets-girl, make sagot the guy then after few years… girl-leaves-boy! (famillar to ah). Love is a sacrifice daw…duh! at sinong ponio pilatong gagawa ng ganyan ngaun?! Well, everybody(sinagot ang tanong). There’s this and that!… Been there, done that!… "na-mi-miss ko na sya hu hu hu", e anak ng…iniwan ka na nga e, syempre may reason…dami; siguro nasasakal na sya, may nakitang meron higit sayo, ayaw ng magulang sayo, ang booring mong kasama dahil wala ka ng binukang bibig kung nde "bago cellfone q!… wanna try?", "may laro kami mamya dala ka twalya", o baka kala nya dati ang guwapo mo sa unang tingin sa bandang huli panget din, mabaho hininga mo… at ang huli "AYAW KO NA SAYO!!". In different cases, many reason. No one can predict when will the pain remain or "sumama na sa bagyo!", like me, I thought he was the one (scenario: 7yrs ago) he’s my whole world, my life, my companion, my love (sowsss!) but a year, nawala nalang, lumipad na ata kasama ng utak nya papuntang Dubai (ay ewan), kaw ba naman sabihan ka "Wala na ako nararamdaman…kc ang bigat mong kasama"…nyee as if nag-fit yung reason e noh, sana nga sinabi nalang na meron ng iba e matatangap mo pa kasi kapag ganun alam mong may kulang ka, at may nakakahigit sayo. Kung lalaki lang ako malamang nagsuntukan na kami nun e ha ha ha. Maybe it was never meant to be talaga, wag na ipilit ang ayaw kasi the more you put it that way, it gets worse (nakana…nagsalita).
Another case (nde akin); girl-meets-boy, boy-love-girl, then boy-pinagpalit sa ibang-girl, pathetic, naive. Hmmmm, in this kinda thing medyo common na, the girl thought that she’s super secure with his guy, they said that it is their nature to… you know, magkaroon ng sabit yung guy, huh! and they thought na napaka-macho na nila sa ganun state. Sample, I have a friend, lahat ata ng lugar sa CAMANAVA e tinantusan na (Oo Jepp kaw yun!), minsan nakakainis na kasama kasi paranoid lagi "Uy! alis na tayo dito baka may kakilala si Tanga, makita pa ako!" Or "Pre may regalo ako, nandyan sa kotse… busog ka dyan he he he" langya akala ko lechon, babae pala. The fact na ganito ang nature ng mga lalaki e meron naman good side, yun nga lang minsan kapag dumating na sa punto na wala sayo ang hinahanap nila e maghahanap pa rin (nyeee ganun din)labo. Well, meron pa naman natitira, and maybe sya nalang siguro ang taong ganun sa mundo (sowss mare swerte mo sa bf mo), mabait, masipag, mapagmahal, God-fearing at kung anu-ano pa (meron ka ba non), I’m talking about BZZZZZZZZZZ (aray! aray! kuryente!!), he’s one of my friends, actually kababata ko. Minsan nga naiisip ko baka tanga na lang tong taong to eh, kasi kahit ano ang gawin sa kanya ng gurl ay naku…pusta ako babatukan mo. But I salute this guy (hehehe yan pinuri kana). Sa situation like this, I may say, kapag ganito ginawa sa’yo, face the reality (parang ang dali e noh), mas masaklap nga yung mismo sa harapan mo mas pinili yung iba (nakupo, don’t ask coz nakakabwiset!), Head on, isipin na lang na mas maganda na yung ganun, kung may nakakahigit sa’yo na sometimes na "questionable" na mukang paliparan ng eroplano ang katawan e ala kang magagawa, its he’s dezizion! mark your mind "Hindi ako ang nawalan"(Yeheyy!! sabay-sabay!) Then move on, but wag muna maghanap ng ipapalit, I’m not saying na pangit tingnan but kawawa ang mabibiktima, sbihin mong hindi mo intentions ang mang gamit pero ganun na rin ang kalalabasan. Oki!
Another case; Boy-meets-girl, girl-love-boy, but boy found-out-a-secret, then boy-leaves-girl…or vice versa; This will be bullsh!#!, if you really love your special someone, you don’t have to dig-in for some of their past, well depende nalang kung mad killer yan dati, a secret sometimes has to remain a
secret, ‘wag mong ipilit kung ayaw, they will reveal it to you if the time comes, and if they really trust and love you enough pwedeng mapaaga ang pag-confess nya "shhhh…alam ko kung sino nag assassinate kay Ninoy" (yung mga ganong tipo ba). And in your part, nandun na yun kung ma-appreciate mo ang kanyang sinabi. Well in some cases (ehemplo, ehemplo) There’s this girl, she trully loves his guy, she said, "I have
a little bit of a secret, and I love you kaya ayokong may itinatago sa’yo"…(so here goes)… Isa siyang lokaret… kung tawagin ng jologs ay "Muret!", if you can imagine what kind of a girl this is… BINGO!, makulit, magulo, maingay, isang damakmak ang naging syota sa school, hindi na virgin (issue ba yun?)etc etc… but that was before when she met you at wala kapa sa buhay niya. But things change, nag iba na lahat… iba na lahat sa kanya. Nung nalaman mo na ganito siya noon, pero iba na ngayon, well thank God at tinangap mo… pero hindi bukal sa loob mo. They ended in marriage, but then suddenly nag-flash back sayo ang lahat… "Ba’t ito ang pinakasalan ko?"… e bakit nga ba?…kasi mahal mo, kaya chuva ang lahat ng negatives niya. You have to understand, nobody’s perfect, kahit ikaw siguro may bahong tinatago. Don’t complain!! think about the future, hindi yung kahapon. I read a magazine about a couple who’s been going steady for four years, they decided to tie a knot for the next six months, then suddenly the guy change his mind, he realized that his girlfriend e hindi na… you know… hindi siya ang naging una sa experience ng (hayyy) and he said "You’re not the ideal wife that I’m dreaming of, a mother of my kids!"…. WHAT!… Kapag ganito ka, then you are an ass#@ll!!. Think about it.
secret, ‘wag mong ipilit kung ayaw, they will reveal it to you if the time comes, and if they really trust and love you enough pwedeng mapaaga ang pag-confess nya "shhhh…alam ko kung sino nag assassinate kay Ninoy" (yung mga ganong tipo ba). And in your part, nandun na yun kung ma-appreciate mo ang kanyang sinabi. Well in some cases (ehemplo, ehemplo) There’s this girl, she trully loves his guy, she said, "I have
a little bit of a secret, and I love you kaya ayokong may itinatago sa’yo"…(so here goes)… Isa siyang lokaret… kung tawagin ng jologs ay "Muret!", if you can imagine what kind of a girl this is… BINGO!, makulit, magulo, maingay, isang damakmak ang naging syota sa school, hindi na virgin (issue ba yun?)etc etc… but that was before when she met you at wala kapa sa buhay niya. But things change, nag iba na lahat… iba na lahat sa kanya. Nung nalaman mo na ganito siya noon, pero iba na ngayon, well thank God at tinangap mo… pero hindi bukal sa loob mo. They ended in marriage, but then suddenly nag-flash back sayo ang lahat… "Ba’t ito ang pinakasalan ko?"… e bakit nga ba?…kasi mahal mo, kaya chuva ang lahat ng negatives niya. You have to understand, nobody’s perfect, kahit ikaw siguro may bahong tinatago. Don’t complain!! think about the future, hindi yung kahapon. I read a magazine about a couple who’s been going steady for four years, they decided to tie a knot for the next six months, then suddenly the guy change his mind, he realized that his girlfriend e hindi na… you know… hindi siya ang naging una sa experience ng (hayyy) and he said "You’re not the ideal wife that I’m dreaming of, a mother of my kids!"…. WHAT!… Kapag ganito ka, then you are an ass#@ll!!. Think about it.
